What defines you? It is an interesting question. For some people, what most defines you is the opinions of others. For others, you simply follow status quo (go to school, get a job, get married, have kids). And yet others decide to be strategic and work very hard to shape a life they love. Some change the world by their vision and courage.
The decision to shape or reshape your life can happen at any point. For some it happens young, for others around momentous birthdays like 40, 50, 60 or 70. And then throw in the twist of life circumstances along the journey that jolt you into a new reality, like it or not.
The question is, what defines you? Recognizing this is the most important part. Once you know the answer, you can decide if you are happy with it that way, or if it is time for some change. As you become aware of the things that are defining you, you take another stride forward in taking your control back and living the life you truly want to live.
Of course, this is not for the faint at heart. It does take discipline and perseverance. And it does take digging deep since these are usually very well ingrained pieces of who you are. It is in that depth that you find your strength, courage and fortitude that allows you to create a life you love.
Why bother? The ultimate goal is freedom. Freedom from financial stress and worry. Freedom from the unhealthy yo-yo of gaining and losing weight. Freedom from being in a career you hate. Freedom from struggle. And freedom to be all you can be and have all you desire. Freedom comes from redefining yourself in a way that makes sense for you.
Here is the magic formula:
1. What is something less than positive that is defining your life right now?
2. Decide with 100% commitment to change it.
3. Define success for you with this change. What will redefine you in the direction you want to go?
4. Then, take one step and another and another to decide what defines you.
Before you know it, you will be well down the road towards success and getting more and more of what you want most in your life. Our Mentoring services are invaluable when looking at what defines you. People often don’t want to take a look because of fear of what you might find. The good news it we can help you get to the other side. We will move you from struggle and overwhelm to composed, vibrant and confident in a direction that sets your Soul on Fire.
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